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She is so annoying, and she gets me mad all the time. she is 17 and i am 15 , she has been giving me bad anger problems lately which made me get grounded, and now my mom won’t speak to me. She thinks shes an adult now that she got knocked up but really isn’t because she acts like a little kid and is obsessed with hello kitty. She knows a secret from me and she uses that against me to shut me up, but all the time.. its so annoying. I feel like destroying and throwing everything around me, but i let my anger out by writing . And the worst part of her is that she judges me and my brother for everything we want to buy or do and she calls me a waste of money even though i don’t even buy anything, and kind of mean to look at it this way but she is wasting more money on things that could of been prevented, getting pregnant is a lot of money(sonograms, baby clothes, excess food, pregnancy clothes, cribs, stuff to get prepared for a baby. etc) i’m so stressed and her way of character currently is bothering me. also she eats unhealthy, like fast food everyday. i tell her to start eating healthy and she doesn’t and to start walking because she is in her 7th month already . i mean she bothered me before she got pregnant so with her pregnant hormones i can’t stand her anymore, i want to move or stay away from this house. i guess i’m still angry at her for getting pregnant at a early age , i mean she used to be sort of a role model for me but now i just look at her in anger and disgust. I know long .. but how do i change this?

I think you said a lot at the bottom of this. You’re anger is masking the hurt that you feel. You feel hurt that your sister got pregnant at a young age. At 15, you don’t understand fully how things happen without thinking. I’m sure your sister is upset with herself for not being more careful. You need to think about what your sister is going through. She’s 17 years old and 7 months pregnant. A baby is a lot of responsibility for married, grown up couples. But your sister is still a child herself. She’s scared and worried. You need to tell her how you feel and then maybe you guys can talk through this. Explain to her that when she uses your secret against you, it hurts you because I’m sure you told her in confidence because she was your role model at one point. Just take a deep breath when you get angry and realizes she’s more annoyed at her choices than you are at them. My sister and I didn’t get along either until my nephew was born – it’s an amazing experience. I’m sure this is hard on your parents, so don’t make it harder on anyone – just talk to her! If she won’t listen, realize you tried and let it go.

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