My bf of 4 1/2 yrs left me a month ago while 4 months pregnant. How do I get him back?
February 11th, 2010 | 
Author: He left me for a 19 year old while he is 32 years old. I think he just got scared, but I want him in my life and my childs. Any GOOD suggestions? Please no negative answers, I want solutions and just moving on and seeking child support I’ve already heard.
If he’ll leave you while your pregnant because he’s scared . . . imagine what he’ll do during labor. Or when there is a baby crying all night. Or when you are postnatal and you can’t have sex for six weeks or longer. Or when that kid needs him. Or when that kid gets a driver’s license. Or when that kid is going to college.
Life is scary. Having kids is scary. Being in a committed relationship is scary.
Find someone with courage. Someone who won’t run. Someone who takes on the big stuff. And until you find that person, YOU need to be that person. Have courage.
Winnie the Pooh said it best to Piglet: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Write that down on a card and tape it to your mirror. And don’t even think of letting that guy back in. Nope. He’s just not good enough for you.
Now go listen to "I Will Survive" a few thousand times. Dance to it. Sing it. Imagine him coming back, begging you for a second chance. And you say to him:
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
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if he isn’t willing to go back to you then he isn’t going to. you can’t do anything to make him come back to you. The only thing you can hope for is that he will realize that he has a good woman and a blessing on the way. i’m sorry but sometimes men are just selfish!
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I would give him some time. If you were together for such a long period of time, he might have gotten scared and needed to rethink what is going on. Give it about a month and see if things change. I would tell you that you should just forget about him, but you do know him better than I do, so yea. Good luck and God Bless
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Well if he wants to come back he will. There’s not much you can do.Maybe it’s just the moodiness of you being pregnant.He may just need a break. If he’s smart, he will relaize that he has a good girl and his child on the way. Men are crazy. Ppl say that everything happens for a reason, if it’s ment to be then he will come back.Hope all goes well
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DONT get him back. You are so much better than a grown man leaving his 4 month pregnant girlfriend of nearly 5 years for a younger woman!
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If he’ll leave you while your pregnant because he’s scared . . . imagine what he’ll do during labor. Or when there is a baby crying all night. Or when you are postnatal and you can’t have sex for six weeks or longer. Or when that kid needs him. Or when that kid gets a driver’s license. Or when that kid is going to college.
Life is scary. Having kids is scary. Being in a committed relationship is scary.
Find someone with courage. Someone who won’t run. Someone who takes on the big stuff. And until you find that person, YOU need to be that person. Have courage.
Winnie the Pooh said it best to Piglet: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Write that down on a card and tape it to your mirror. And don’t even think of letting that guy back in. Nope. He’s just not good enough for you.
Now go listen to "I Will Survive" a few thousand times. Dance to it. Sing it. Imagine him coming back, begging you for a second chance. And you say to him:
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
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Then moving on and get child support is what you must do! We can’t tell you how to get him back because it might not work. We can’t say "just talk to him" or whatever then abra kadabra he’s with you again. It’s obvious he’s not ready for a child, and that sweetheart, is not a man. He’s a little boy still, not wanting to take responsibility. Yes, babies are a BIG responsibility and they can even change your life. You can’t go out or hang out with friends because you have to stay home and take care of the baby because they can’t take care of themselves. Just like this saying, "It takes a boy to make a baby, but it takes a man to raise one." So, yeah, your 32 year old boyfriend left you while you’re pregnant, he’s a little BOY. Age ain’t nothing but numbers sweetie.
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